Showing posts with label holidays. Show all posts
Showing posts with label holidays. Show all posts
Treasure Your Children's School Projects - Valentine's Day, Mother's Day, Father's Day and others
They are getting older quickly, your children will one day be men and women working and raising children of their own. The significance of cherishing quality memories will go a long way especially when they have their own children and will look to mom and dad for insight.
Imagine taking out a drawing they have made and using that to illustrate a life lesson years from now. Children are very creative and can sometimes predict the future in their artwork. Treasure those drawings they spent much time creating particularly the ones that are evident they are sharing thought-provoking messages and that spiritually move you.
Those sweet Valentine's Day cards, creative Mother's day gifts and funny Father's day images of dad will warm your heart every time you see them. They will also help you recall those innocent times before hearts were broken, death shook them, and beloved things are no more. Children's personalities change with each issue they face and so does their inspiration to create.
Enjoy those fun things they design, put them in a safe place, and be prepared to take them back out later in life!
Nicholl McGuire shares spiritual insight on YouTube Channel: nmenterprise7.
Imagine taking out a drawing they have made and using that to illustrate a life lesson years from now. Children are very creative and can sometimes predict the future in their artwork. Treasure those drawings they spent much time creating particularly the ones that are evident they are sharing thought-provoking messages and that spiritually move you.
Those sweet Valentine's Day cards, creative Mother's day gifts and funny Father's day images of dad will warm your heart every time you see them. They will also help you recall those innocent times before hearts were broken, death shook them, and beloved things are no more. Children's personalities change with each issue they face and so does their inspiration to create.
Enjoy those fun things they design, put them in a safe place, and be prepared to take them back out later in life!
Nicholl McGuire shares spiritual insight on YouTube Channel: nmenterprise7.
Holidays - Children Get Overwhelmed with Toys, Relatives, Food, Noise
Sometimes parents can be so happy being amongst adults that they lose track of time and forget that their fussy baby, cranky tween, and angry teen are simply tired.
Children are excited when they know they have a day filled with fun activities and that excitement may not come down for hours, sometimes days! They rise early, talk much, do unusual things, and can drive parents insane due to all their energy. Oftentimes, they will want to stay up on most nights even when they should be sleeping.
Parents will need to plan accordingly. When children are starting to overwhelm parents, it is time to put things away and direct them to bed. At times, adults don't comprehend this especially when they don't have children at home. They will sometimes encourage mayhem, rather than help alleviate challenging situations.
If you are a new parent, speak up and explain to those who insist on keeping children entertained that enough is enough, there is always tomorrow. Invite them over the next day if they want to spend more time with your baby or children. Enlist the help of those who could put toys away, help with kitchen clean up, start a bath, read a bedtime story, or do something else.
Most parents enjoy the company of all, but even the best parents grow weary of family and all that comes with them, and so do babies and children.
Nicholl McGuire is a mother of four boys and the author of When Mothers Cry and other books. She offers spiritual insight on a number of topics on YouTube channel: nmenterprise7.
Children are excited when they know they have a day filled with fun activities and that excitement may not come down for hours, sometimes days! They rise early, talk much, do unusual things, and can drive parents insane due to all their energy. Oftentimes, they will want to stay up on most nights even when they should be sleeping.
Parents will need to plan accordingly. When children are starting to overwhelm parents, it is time to put things away and direct them to bed. At times, adults don't comprehend this especially when they don't have children at home. They will sometimes encourage mayhem, rather than help alleviate challenging situations.
If you are a new parent, speak up and explain to those who insist on keeping children entertained that enough is enough, there is always tomorrow. Invite them over the next day if they want to spend more time with your baby or children. Enlist the help of those who could put toys away, help with kitchen clean up, start a bath, read a bedtime story, or do something else.
Most parents enjoy the company of all, but even the best parents grow weary of family and all that comes with them, and so do babies and children.
Nicholl McGuire is a mother of four boys and the author of When Mothers Cry and other books. She offers spiritual insight on a number of topics on YouTube channel: nmenterprise7.
Family and Friends Won't Always Say Nice Things About Your Children
We love our children and want was is best for them. Yet, sometimes what we think is right in what we say and do with our children isn't necessarily right in the eyes of those who have long parented children--who have been there and done that. So when you and your children are invited to a family celebration, spending far too many hours with relatives, sometimes things will be said or done that just might offend you, so be prepared.
1. Why did those kids get all that food on their plates knowing full well they aren't going to eat it all?
2. Why is there open cans of soda and water bottles half full, yet the children are going to get more?
3. Why didn't the parents clean after the children when they made that mess?
4. They shouldn't let the children run around like that. Where are their parents?
5. Did you hear what that child said to his/her mother/father, if that was me...?
6. These children nowadays just aren't being raised like we were.
7. Is anyone going to quiet that whiny baby? If the child didn't feel well, why did they bring him/her?
Some solutions to quiet some of the family criticism concerning your children would be:
1. Shorten your visit from the start. Seniors and children after awhile tire of one another. Both will compete for attention, both tend to act petty, and both can be demanding.
2. Take noisy children outdoors or in another part of the residence. Nap time might be needed. The longer they stay up, the more likely they will be disruptive.
3. Don't assume everyone likes children, so stay away from those who appear to act rude, impatient, and critical of babies and children.
4. Teach and discipline your children before they leave from home how to behave when around others. Specify the consequences if they choose to misbehave.
5. Avoid piling on food and desserts on the children's plate and share bottles and cans between children by pouring in cups or bring their cups from home to avoid accidents.
6. Keep noisy toys at home and don't forget headphones for electronic devices.
Tis the season. Happy Holidays!
Nicholl McGuire
Oh and please show your support, I have many books available for sale. See below:
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When Mothers Cry https://www.createspace.com/3393499
Laboring to Love Myself https://www.createspace.com/3401526
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Spiritual Poems By Nicholl http://www.blurb.com/bookstore/detail...
1. Why did those kids get all that food on their plates knowing full well they aren't going to eat it all?
2. Why is there open cans of soda and water bottles half full, yet the children are going to get more?
3. Why didn't the parents clean after the children when they made that mess?
4. They shouldn't let the children run around like that. Where are their parents?
5. Did you hear what that child said to his/her mother/father, if that was me...?
6. These children nowadays just aren't being raised like we were.
7. Is anyone going to quiet that whiny baby? If the child didn't feel well, why did they bring him/her?
Some solutions to quiet some of the family criticism concerning your children would be:
1. Shorten your visit from the start. Seniors and children after awhile tire of one another. Both will compete for attention, both tend to act petty, and both can be demanding.
2. Take noisy children outdoors or in another part of the residence. Nap time might be needed. The longer they stay up, the more likely they will be disruptive.
3. Don't assume everyone likes children, so stay away from those who appear to act rude, impatient, and critical of babies and children.
4. Teach and discipline your children before they leave from home how to behave when around others. Specify the consequences if they choose to misbehave.
5. Avoid piling on food and desserts on the children's plate and share bottles and cans between children by pouring in cups or bring their cups from home to avoid accidents.
6. Keep noisy toys at home and don't forget headphones for electronic devices.
Tis the season. Happy Holidays!
Nicholl McGuire
Oh and please show your support, I have many books available for sale. See below:
Know Your Enemy: The Christian's Critic https://www.createspace.com/3437273
When Mothers Cry https://www.createspace.com/3393499
Laboring to Love Myself https://www.createspace.com/3401526
Laboring to Love an Abusive Mate https://www.createspace.com/3332346
Floral Beauty on a Dead End Street http://www.blurb.com/bookstore/detail...
Spiritual Poems By Nicholl http://www.blurb.com/bookstore/detail...
Be Smart This Holiday Season - Plan Things Keeping Children in Mind
Some parents aren't thinking too much about children, believe it or not, during holiday seasons. Rather they are more concerned about visiting loved ones, partying, and overall doing what they want to do. When this happens, families have disputes and babies and children are left disturbed over what they have seen and heard between angry adults. You might want to think about some things when holiday planning with children that just might keep you or someone else out of trouble this year.
1. If it isn't necessary to go visiting or staying overnight at someone's home with children, don't.
Some babies and children are challenging to discipline. When you know your child is a handful, it would make sense not to put him or her off on others. The likelihood that someone, especially an older more experienced adult will say or do something that just might rub you the wrong way is probable. Best to make sure your child and self are mentally, physically and sometimes spiritually ready for visiting relatives during the holidays.
2. Avoid the alcohol, drugs and anything else that alters one's mind when caring for children.
A sober mind is very necessary when parenting small children. When relatives and friends notice that mom or dad just isn't caring for baby and children like they should, unnecessary drama between loved ones will occur. If one is going to indulge in strong drink and other substances, do it away from children.
3. Don't entrust anyone to care for your children like you--no matter the title or how long you have known the person or couple.
Sometimes while parents are out having a good time, a trusted relative and friend is doing some things that are questionable, immoral, and downright stomach-turning with children. Don't be gullible, be watchful and never assume everyone will treat your child like you would no matter what they say.
4. Avoid the temptation to do something that you know just might come back to haunt you this holiday season.
Sometimes relatives have unfinished business to settle. The holidays just aren't the time to bring up the past. Besides, parents won't get much accomplished with whining babies and toddlers with temper tantrums hanging around. Sometimes angry parents will take their frustration out on their children in front of others. If you know that being in the presence of certain people brings out the worst in you, avoid confrontation this time of year; otherwise, you just might have to deal with some issues in the future that you aren't ready for.
5. Always keep your children's safety in mind from the toys they receive to where they play.
With so much activity going on, sometimes parents fail to exercise caution when allowing children to play in and around people and things. Just because something looks cute and harmless doesn't mean that it is. Don't put your children in a position that might cause harm to them emotionally or physically for the sake of a good laugh or some other reason. Keep them safe!
Pondering on these thoughts and properly planning in advance will potentially help you and your child in the future. Sometimes selfish behavior can cause a lifetime of upset, so be wise and do what's right in the best interest of you, your children and those around you! Happy Holidays!
Nicholl McGuire author of When Mothers Cry. See her blog here.
1. If it isn't necessary to go visiting or staying overnight at someone's home with children, don't.
Some babies and children are challenging to discipline. When you know your child is a handful, it would make sense not to put him or her off on others. The likelihood that someone, especially an older more experienced adult will say or do something that just might rub you the wrong way is probable. Best to make sure your child and self are mentally, physically and sometimes spiritually ready for visiting relatives during the holidays.
2. Avoid the alcohol, drugs and anything else that alters one's mind when caring for children.
A sober mind is very necessary when parenting small children. When relatives and friends notice that mom or dad just isn't caring for baby and children like they should, unnecessary drama between loved ones will occur. If one is going to indulge in strong drink and other substances, do it away from children.
3. Don't entrust anyone to care for your children like you--no matter the title or how long you have known the person or couple.
Sometimes while parents are out having a good time, a trusted relative and friend is doing some things that are questionable, immoral, and downright stomach-turning with children. Don't be gullible, be watchful and never assume everyone will treat your child like you would no matter what they say.
4. Avoid the temptation to do something that you know just might come back to haunt you this holiday season.
Sometimes relatives have unfinished business to settle. The holidays just aren't the time to bring up the past. Besides, parents won't get much accomplished with whining babies and toddlers with temper tantrums hanging around. Sometimes angry parents will take their frustration out on their children in front of others. If you know that being in the presence of certain people brings out the worst in you, avoid confrontation this time of year; otherwise, you just might have to deal with some issues in the future that you aren't ready for.
5. Always keep your children's safety in mind from the toys they receive to where they play.
With so much activity going on, sometimes parents fail to exercise caution when allowing children to play in and around people and things. Just because something looks cute and harmless doesn't mean that it is. Don't put your children in a position that might cause harm to them emotionally or physically for the sake of a good laugh or some other reason. Keep them safe!
Pondering on these thoughts and properly planning in advance will potentially help you and your child in the future. Sometimes selfish behavior can cause a lifetime of upset, so be wise and do what's right in the best interest of you, your children and those around you! Happy Holidays!
Nicholl McGuire author of When Mothers Cry. See her blog here.
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